The train bearers are young boys or girls most often between the ages of four and nine. They are typically used in very formal weddings where the bride's train is exceptionally long.  Train bearers are often used in pairs...one on either side of the bride's train. 

What is the train bearer's role?
The train bearer directly follows the bride in the processional.  He or she carries and arranges the bride's train. The train bearer typically does not stand in the receiving line.

What is the role of the train bearer's parents?
The parents should pay for his/her wedding attire.  The train bearer's parents are responsible for bringing him/her to the wedding and rehearsal unless other arrangements are made.  After the ceremony, the parents are responsible for him/her again. 

What pre-wedding events should the train bearer attend?
The train bearer should attend the rehearsal, but he/she does not need to attend the rehearsal dinner. Make sure that he/she gets lots of practice and guidance at the rehearsal to help eliminate wedding day mishaps.

Wedding Attire:
The train bearer wears attire that matches the flower girl or ring bearer. The train bearer’s parents are responsible for paying for his/her attire.